Pear – Separation

Pear – Separation

Genus: Pyrus – Family: Rosaceae

Pear signifies a time of loss, difficulty or separation, but it also asks us to look at our life from a different perspective. Sometimes what we are losing is creating an opportunity that leads us in a healthier more fulfilling direction.

Pears are ancient and sacred symbols of love and separation. In Chinese, the word “fen li” means “sharing a pear”, which is pronounced the same way as the word meaning “separation.” In this way pear is a homophone (words that sound alike but have different meanings). In English the word pear (fruit) sounds just like pair (two of something) and pare (cutting back). This dynamic use of the word pear speaks to the double meaning of most life situations.

In Greek mythology, the pear tree was sacred to Hera, mother of the Olympian gods. As the goddess of marriage and childbirth, she could also be jealous and vengeful. In Roman mythology Hera was also known as Juno, Aphrodite and Venus.

Hera was known as Hera Apios, apios is Greek for “pear tree”. Idols of her were carved from pear wood. The Latin word for pear is pirum, meaning, “pear-shaped.” The pyramidal shape of a pear tree is similar to its fruit, which resembles a womb. This speaks to the fact that a woman’s womb has the potential to create life, yet the womb must separate itself from that life for the child to live. Separation is a normal aspect of life and pear reminds us of this fact.

Pears Pyrus, apples Malus and quince Cydonia are all cousins in the Rosaceae family. Each has a unique story to tell. Pears are native to coastal and temperate regions of the Old World from Western Europe and North Africa to Asia. The genus is thought to originate in China and spread from there. Today there are over 20 species and 3000 known varieties of pear including deciduous and evergreen trees that can reach heights of 56ft.

The spirit of the pear tree invites us to see that true unity is a continual process of joining and separating. In Taoist tradition, this concept is known as Yin and Yang, or the harmony of opposites. Empedocles (Greek philosopher circa 490–430BCE) also saw that the forces of nature were eternally brought together into union by love and then separated through strife. This process may feel chaotic but it is a necessary aspect of creation.

Message: Now is a time of separation where we may need to give ourselves or someone we love some space. By allowing a period of separation, we create a way to see things from a new perspective. As we feel the absence of what we are separated from our appreciation of what we had may grow. This is also a reminder that even as we feel separate from others we are being given the opportunity to cast a wider net to see who the “other” is.

Challenge: Stifling the creative process by holding on and not allowing space to breathe or independent ideas to form. Jealousy and insecurity suffocate love and creativity.

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2 Comments Add yours

  1. Daniel says:

    Beautiful. Thank you for this post. I am a wand maker, and I came across your post while researching pear wood for a custom wand I am making.

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  2. Mordechai says:

    Wow. This was precious. The homophone was moving. Thank you!


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